
Yeah, it's true. That's my conclusion after two months of looking for a new house to rent in my Chicago suburb.
Of course, it should also be noted that most former homeowners are less than ideal renters. We are hard to please, believe we are being asked to pay too much for substandard housing, and are subconsciously always comparing the homes on offer to our lost but not forgotten home. Like the lover who got away, the lost house shines brighter in the memory than perhaps it deserves. Hey, we're all human.
But the fact remains that even today, several years after the popping of the real estate bubble, it is mostly the worst of the unsaleable homes that enter the rental market. They are the ugly ducklings of suburban housing: located on busy streets, abutting a big parking lot, next to the train tracks, etc. The cheapest ones have not been renovated for decades. Those on the next rung up are either comically small for either families or unrelated housemates, or have been haphazardly updated. The place I live in now, for instance, has a beautiful master suite that was added about a decade ago, but the rest of the house is straight out of the 1970s.

And yet we committed yesterday to extend our one-year lease for another 10 months. Why? I can give you three excellent reasons:
1)
Better the devil you know. Both the house and our landlords are known quantities. The latter are very decent people who live down the street and respond quickly when anything goes wrong. The house, well, at least now we know that half of it is a frozen wasteland in wintertime, and can plan ahead. We have also received permission to repaint some rooms. Heck, I may even throw up some curtains to hide the awful metal mini-blinds. It's amazing how creative you can get when the alternative is hauling twenty years' worth of stuff across town in a U-Haul truck.
2)
Families should only move when they have to or if there is a clear advantage to doing so. Our family moved last year for two reasons: we could no longer afford our house, and our son's school was unresponsive to repeated complaints about abusive classmates. Alone, either of these situations might be remedied. Together, we decided it was best to get out of Dodge. We were right, too, at least for us. Our children are much happier at their new school. And our house was sold a few months after we negotiated a deed-in-lieu for
half what we paid in 2004! That means we were hundreds of thousands of dollars underwater, and no bank would ever modify that mortgage in a way that could justify staying. We are saving thousands of dollars a month, which can go into family activities, college accounts, etc. But if we move from this house to another rental, we will not only have to shell out thousands in moving costs. We would also have to double pay for at least a few weeks (likely a full month) and would almost certainly pay more in rent. If we had found a great house during my two months of tireless looking, we probably would have done it. But that was not to be, which brings me to the third point.
3)
Reluctant landlords are not good landlords. Necessity may be the mother of invention, but the need to generate some income off your family home seems to be the mother of schizophrenia. Here is what I saw in my rental search. One owner had his house on the market for about four months, either for rent or sale. When we offered to rent it he asked for a day or two to find a place to move to. He came back the next day saying he needed to stay because the rental options looked terrible. Another homeowner who had moved out of state had to choose between us and a couple with no kids, no dog, and no foreclosure on their record. Guess who won? A third guy was recently divorced with two small kids living in a distant suburb with their mother. It was hard to view his house (which was lovely, if small, and definitely priced right) because any praise for the house reminded him of dashed dreams of family togetherness. I was going for upbeat optimism, but every word of mine seemed to cut him. He told us of a friend who rented out his house to a guy who stopped paying after a few months, and when he was about to be evicted tore out everything that wasn't nailed down. Needless to say, we never heard back from him. I bet he opted to stay in the house, like the other divorced father.
Quite a few of the rentals available in our town are owned by a developer who got caught up in the housing frenzy a few years back and bought too many tear-downs. Then the bubble popped, and he was stuck with plans he could not execute, mcmansions he could not sell, and a bunch of overpriced "bargains" he needed to rent out to generate some ready cash. Now, if someone bought a bunch of houses with the sole intent of tearing them down, what kind of shape do you think they are in? The correct answer is, not good. And since they're just looking to keep cash flow positive until the market "turns around," what kind of improvements will reluctant developer landlords make to their properties? That's right: none.

So the bottom line is, don't believe the hype about this being a new golden age for America's landlords. Most of the new landlords are clearly as scarred (and scared) as the people who are looking to them for temporary housing. Many of them are overwhelmed by the initial rush of responses to their ads and believe this means the media reports are true and they will have no problem finding qualified middle-class renters. Sadly, this usually doesn't turn out to be true. One house we looked at and rejected as too small continues to sit on the market a month later. There are, in fact, lots of rentals available at bargain prices, but few that middle-class families with steady income want to live in.
In short, there is a dreadful mismatch between renters and would-be landlords. We have different needs and expectations, which are hard to reconcile. And we have, for the most part, taken opposite bets in the crapshoot that has become the great American housing market. Renters are increasingly the people who either lost a home or refuse to buy one (for now), while landlords are betting that things will start going their way soon. We can't both win. Our landlord keeps trying to talk us into buying the house we live in. As if. But you can't actually say that and remain on good terms. That would be like having the guy your daughter is dating say he will never ever marry her. It'd be hard to be on speaking terms after that one.